Guide to Talking Dirty During Sex: 107 Tips and Examples

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For example, you might ask, ‘Do you like how I feel? ’ or ‘What would you do if I stroked you like this? ’” And see how your partner’s response might turn up the heat. Dr. Tara says one accessible way to talk dirty is to simply describe (exactly) what’s happening as you’re having sex. This can be really erotic and doesn’t require you to quickly recall phrases or scenarios. Talking dirty introduces an additional sense (hearing) to any sexcapade, which stimulates the brain in a way that goes beyond just touch.

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Although men and women tend to differ slightly in erotic talk preferences, overall, there are some similarities in the data for both. Both men and women reported high levels of enjoyment for mutualistic talk (higher than individualistic talk). When lovers are apart from one another and physical intimacy is impossible, it can be an important aspect of virtual sex, particularly phone sex and cybersex. Additionally, love talk is more sexual in nature than pillow talk and tends to occur preceding or during rather than following lovemaking. Imagine whispering suggestive words into your partner’s ear.

  • I was dripping wet.” Dr. Tara particularly recommends this method as a means of sexting, too.
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  • Another excellent source of ideas is returning to a time in the past when you and your partner had a particularly sexy encounter.
  • For example, some women may get turned on by words like “slut” or “whore,” even though they find it offensive outside the bedroom.
  • However, discussing boundaries and consent is crucial to ensuring both partners are comfortable and enjoy the experience.

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A fun and easy way of initiating erotic talk would be through the game. Dirty talk gives people permission to surrender to their deepest, darkest, wildest fantasies. Sex is supposed to be dirty, erotic, and most of all fun. It lowers inhibitions and reveals bedroom personalities by allowing partners to go a layer deeper within our everyday selves. “Practice expressing your needs and wants and encourage your partner to do the same and be ready to deliver the goods.” “Basically you want to negotiate dirty talk ahead of time just like you’d negotiate any other sex,” she says.

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Unfortunately I don’t do it as much as I would like to but I find myself having a better time when it’s involved. A huge part of attraction for me is someone’s ability to tickle my brain, as I like to say. I like to know if my partner is turned on, more about what they enjoy and find sexy. Honestly it also stresses me out if i’m not sure what my partner is feeling.

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Nothing gets a person going quite like a round of dirty text messages or phone sex. Lucky for you, we’ve compiled the best dirty talk examples to add to your repertoire. Start with phrases that are simple and that make sense. “I want you so bad,” is a perfect place to start. You can also see how reactive your partner is and continue down a path she’s responding well to.

If you know what your girl likes, you can better tailor what you say. The dirty things to say to a girl that work the best are always the things that’ll spark the most interest in her. It turns out that there is a simple solution for women who struggle to orgasm, whether you are having sex or masturbating. Every time they were intimate, Karen was faking her orgasms. It turns out she couldn’t orgasm during sex. It’s supposed to be fun and comfortable, not intimidating.

It’s also important to practice consent and be aware of any power dynamics or potential for coercion. In summary, dirty talk can have both positive and negative psychological effects, depending on the individual and the context in which it takes place. Jennifer Litner, PhD, a certified sex therapist, describes sounds as one of the key senses that can heighten arousal, especially for women. She theorizes that the preference for audio erotica over video could be due to the fact that much of mainstream porn is male-centric and can be off-putting because of the ways women’s bodies are objectified in them. Plus, those clips don’t leave much (if anything) to the imagination.

Dr. Needle agrees that being selfless in the bedroom — and being vocal about your intent to bring your partner to orgasm — is almost a guaranteed turn on. So if the thought of it makes you cringe but you’d still like to give it a try, we’ve got you—here’s a beginner’s guide to dirty talk. Can you come up with an elaborate fantasy featuring handcuffs, a fire-breathing dragon, and a multi-orgasmic sex sesh? Sure, if that’s the kind of verbal hanky-panky you and your partner have agreed on. “Showing enthusiasm for what you’re doing and for the person you’re with can help people feel wanted and desired,” says Harris. For example, maybe in your opinion “soft” is a compliment, but your partner hears it as a criticism of their weight.

Don’t rush through it, and pull back if needed. Here are some tips on how to make sex last longer if pacing, in general, tends to be something you struggle with. That said, in the event that you hit a snag during dirty talk, remember that sexy time doesn’t necessarily need to stall out unless someone becomes really uncomfortable. It is insane, I literally cannot believe it and I am super thankful for all the people watching and making it what it is.

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